🧼 Online Dating Etiquette: Do’s and Don’ts

💬 The New Rules of Romance

Online dating isn’t the Wild West — there are unspoken rules that separate the polite from the pushy, and the charming from the cringey. If you want better matches (and real conversations), follow these do’s and don’ts of online dating etiquette. 🧠✨

✅ DO: Send a Friendly First Message

Start with a personal and respectful opener. Show you've read their profile — even just one small detail makes a difference.

💡 Example:

“Your dog is adorable — what’s their name?” 🐾

❌ DON’T: Copy-Paste Messages

Sending the same generic line to 10 people rarely works. People notice when effort is missing — and usually swipe away.

✅ DO: Be Honest About Your Intentions

Whether you're looking for love or something casual, be upfront — respectfully. It saves everyone time and builds trust.

❌ DON’T: Disappear Mid-Conversation (Ghosting)

If you’re no longer interested, it’s okay — just say so. A simple “Hey, I don’t think this is a match, but I wish you well” shows maturity.

✅ DO: Respect Boundaries

If someone doesn’t respond, don't double-message aggressively. If they say “no” to a request, don’t push. Respect is attractive.

❌ DON’T: Get Too Sexual Too Soon

Jumping into flirtatious or explicit comments right away is a major turn-off — and can get you reported.

✅ Build trust and comfort first. Chemistry grows with time, not shock value.

✅ DO: Keep Your Profile Updated

Old photos, outdated info, or broken links make you look careless. Keep things current and real.

❌ DON’T: Judge Based on One Photo

Swipe culture is fast, but real connection takes depth. Give people the benefit of the doubt — not everyone’s a model, and that’s okay.

❤️ Final Thought

Good manners never go out of style — even online. A little respect, honesty, and kindness can take you much further than cheesy lines or games. Be the kind of person you would want to date. 💘